Merry Christmas!

Christmas, once esteemed to be a very special holiday, has become nothing less than a battlefield in the culture war. How sad that in this day of "tolerance" the enemies of the Christian faith must engage smear campaigns to achieve their goal of a Godless society. Witness the display in the Washington State Capitol.

No one denies that America provides each citizen the right to have and hold whatever they wish to believe. No one wishes to remove the freedom of speech/expression about those beliefs. What is essential, however, is using the age-old common courtesies that were learned in one's youth.

Perhaps that is where the dilemma lies. Without an unshakable moral foundation, such courtesies are only established by situational/cultural standards. As such, one's courtesies are determined by their own value system rather than by a paradigm of established right and wrong.

In a free society, saying "Merry Christmas" and displaying images of religious significance need not be viewed as threatening or incendiary. They do not attack, nor denigrate. Such images are merely intended to express one's devotion to their espoused belief system. In addition, they demonstrate hope, charity and faith.

On the other hand, expressions such as that displayed in the Capitol Building in Washington State are purely intended to be an attack by the atheists on God and all things religious. In no way was it symbolic or uplifting. The same could be said of groups that espouse racial hatred, anarchy and the like. Suppression of religious expression is clearly the goal.

The fact that the religious display was on the Capitol grounds clearly fits within the First Amendment's prohibition of the government to inhibit the free exercise of religion. In no way does a manger scene establish Christianity as the official state or national religion. In fact, were one to attend the sessions of the Washington State legislature, just the opposite would likely be evident.

Followers of Jesus Christ must rethink their approach to Christmas. It is not an "in your face" opportunity. Rather, it is an opportunity to demonstrate clearly the teaching of the Savior to a world in dire need of redemption and love. Don't make "Merry Christmas" a battle cry. Make it a genuine expression of your sincere interest in sharing Jesus with whomever you greet. Then follow it up with a tangible expression of His grace, mercy and love. Be creative!

This is how one can make a difference! Be different!

Merry Christmas from DifferenceMakers! Always make a difference!

Reflections of a DifferenceMaker

Making a difference requires one to step away from the status quo, and evaluate what is truly important. Sadly, too few ever make the needed sacrifice and, as a result, settle into an auto-pilot lifestyle that is governed by societal and/or cultural norms, rather than on verifiable truth.

One young family recently experienced an "ah-hah" moment that provided them a reality check on their perceptions and attitudes. Their motive was honorable; their sacrifice commendable. When faced with truth, however, they were humbled by the facts.

Please read this reflection from Mundane Musings thoughtfully, and be prepared to see what it takes to be a genuine DifferenceMaker:

"Today my wife & I had the privilege of sitting through our first Foster Parent Review Board session. As 'newbies' in the world of Foster Parenting, we are still getting the hang of the whole process. So when the case worker advised us that we were encouraged to attend the Review Board meeting, we jumped at the chance to learn a little more. Since I had no idea what to expect, I decided I would go into this meeting with ears wide open and mouth wide shut. (I know that “mouth wide shut” isn’t technically possible…but I think you know what I mean) I hoped this approach would allow me to look at the situation objectively and see what’s best for our foster son."

"What I experienced in the meeting was nothing like I had anticipated. In a seemingly cold and sterile review of the situation of this little boy’s life, God took the chance to teach me something about myself: something I wasn’t all that excited to learn."

"Prior to the meeting itself, we had discussed the review session with our foster son’s Guardian ad litem, and he mentioned that he doubted either of the parents would show up for this review. Right or wrong, the thought that went through my mind was “It figures”. Having spent the last 3 months caring for this little boy, I had managed to convince myself that the sparse details I knew of his family situation were proof enough that he was treated as an afterthought. I used the scripture from Psalm 127:3, “Children are a heritage from the Lord…“, as a stepping stool to get on my proverbial high horse. Firmly in saddle, I rode into the conference room."

"The session began with introductions, and I was glad for this. It would be good to know all the people involved in this case. One by one, moving left to right around the table, each person stated their name and their role. Board member. Another board member. Case worker. Guardian ad litem. Father. Case worker. Wait a second! Did that man say “Father”?? Sure enough, I looked across the table and immediately saw the resemblance to my foster son. This was his dad. He had shown up after all: an interesting twist, to be sure. My turn came to state my name, and then my wife did the same."

"After stating our role as foster parents, I purposefully avoided eye contact with the father. Having formed a less than flattering opinion of this man I’d never met, I couldn’t bring myself to look at him."

"The meeting began by the social worker reviewing the reasons that the baby was removed from the situation to begin with. As I heard these, I thought to myself, 'How embarrassing it must be to have a group of strangers sit around and talk about why you were not fit to keep your own child.' They detailed the fact that the father was now out of work. This was one piece of information I was aware of, so it didn’t shock me. What did startle me was that when asked about this situation, the father responded that his plant had closed for an extended holiday break, and he was now working two jobs to do what he could to make ends meet. I found myself looking at him as he gave his account. As he finished talking, he looked my direction and I caught his eyes."

"The entire time we have enjoyed the privilege of caring for our foster son, I had drawn a picture of hardened, selfish man who cared more for his own whims and desires than for the basic needs of his children. What I saw in his eyes couldn’t have been farther from the portrait I’d sketched."

"I saw a man that was embarrassed to have to admit these things in the company of strangers that held sway over his child’s future. I saw a man that had become overwhelmed by the health challenges of his newborn and simply didn’t know how to stop the snowball from rolling downhill. Here was a man working multiple jobs to provide shelter and food for his family, and somehow I was still looking down on him because of the TYPE of job he was able to secure. This was about the point that God tapped me on the shoulder and said, 'The only reason your roles aren’t reversed is because of my sovereign, sustaining grace in your life. I have a plan for you. I have a plan for him. You are currently caring for his son because it’s what I have designed. Don’t you dare think that your path makes you a better person that is any more deserving. It’s my grace that deserves credit…not you.'"

"Gulp."

"I had never considered myself to be an arrogant person. Confident? Sure. Arrogant? Certainly not."

"The fact that I prided myself on my lack of arrogance should have told me something."

"Before this meeting, my wife and I had talked about how difficult it was to pray over this situation. On one hand, we really wanted to pray for the family of our foster son to be restored…but on the other hand, we knew we loved him and felt we could provide him with a strong family environment. After my Boardroom Revelation (too dramatic?), I no longer found it hard to pray in the right way. God’s will is all that needed to be prayed over this matter. Nothing else."

"As the meeting wrapped up, the review board advised us all that they were recommending that, after a few more steps, our foster son be reunited with his family. Five minutes earlier, this news would have caused me to question the wisdom of that decision. But that was back when I thought I was the magic. I now knew better."

"As we were all standing to leave, the Father–who had never spoken up in prior sessions unless directly asked for a response–looked at us and said, 'Thank you for taking care of my son.' Eight words had never resonated so deeply in me."

"Just 15 minutes earlier, I was questioning whether the man across the table was deserving of his own son. In those next 15 minutes God used my own arrogance to remind me that just over 2000 years ago, He probably questioned whether I would be deserving of His."

"As I mentioned, I went into this meeting hoping to learn something. Mission accomplished."

While these are the musings of the young father, his wife was equally impacted by this event. What makes this post meaningful is that it represents the core of this couple's values. They were willing to commit themselves to the life of a young child, but in a larger sense, they evidenced a commitment to doing what was right for another young family.

Well done, Rich and Laurie. Mom and I could not be more proud of your willingness to be used of God, and humble enough to see His plans as superior to your own. We love you!!

Go, therefore, and Make A Difference!!

Pro-Choice Difference Makers

Before you ignore this post, read on.

I believe in being pro-choice.  

• I like having a choice in cars.  
• I enjoy the choice of neighborhoods from which I may pick a home.
• I love the choice that supermarkets offer in food and other household items.
• Having a choice of restaurants, clothing stores, building supply outlets, etc. makes a community more appealing and diverse.

Choices are, in fact, as American as apple pie.  So the question is not whether one should be pro-choice, it is rather a debate about the quality of the choice or choices one makes.  Sadly, along with many other words, this compound word has been hijacked, and become a euphemism for murder in the liberal political agenda.

Some would have us believe that pro-choice only relates to abortion.  I submit that once conception occurs, the choice for the partners ends.  Their choice was during foreplay, and, ultimately, copulation.  Once the egg is fertilized it is an individual; a human life.  Rather than being a "product of conception," as some affirm, the embryo contains the full genetic information of a distinct human being; 23 chromosomes from the mother and 23 chromosomes from the father.  When the embryo implants itself in the wall of the uterus, the viability and existence of that life lies purely in the hands of God, and should not be subject to whims of human intervention.  This little human being, when aborted, is never given a choice!  She or he becomes a fatality; the result of an irreversible choice.  

Abortion is not a matter of choice.  Chastity vs. wanton behavior is!   Self-control vs. licentiousness also demands a choice.  Once a choice is made, the only thing that remains is the consequence.  And, as a wise man once said, "You can choose your choices, but you cannot choose the consequences of your choices."

Difference Makers must confront the errant doctrine of postmodern politics.  Refuse to accept the redefinition of our culture to accommodate those unwilling to live within the boundaries of disciplined choices.  Let's be pro-choice in the manner our Founding Fathers intended us to be!

Spirit Guided v. Market Driven

A sign at a church reads, "The church is Spirit guided, not market driven." How profound ! In our culture, the "market" seems to drive everything, including the church.

To be clear, this author believes that ALL of life is to be Spirit guided. The Apostle Paul instructed the Ephesian church (meaning the people who comprised the community of believers in Ephesus) to be continuously controlled by the Spirit of God (Ephesians 5:18). Our lives are to be governed by the high principles of God's law, and the divine leading of His Holy Spirit. We are not to be driven by "market forces" alone, but to measure those forces by the canon of God's Divine Revelation.

A new dichotomy, however, has become the cultural norm. It would seem that such Spirit guidance has no worth in the marketplace. Many seek a clear separation between what is "spiritual" and what is "secular." This expectation presents Christian believers with a genuine conflict. How can one be continuously guided by God's Holy Spirit, yet unable to exercise such guidance within the marketplace?

This author submits that such a dichotomy does not and should not exist. One cannot separate his spiritual moorings from his daily thoughts. Choices will always be made in relation to what one holds dear. Opinions are the result of ones convictions and values.

Unfortunately, modern culture seeks to prohibit that which is popularly deemed as "intellectually untenable." Such an argument excludes any possibility of honest debate. It permits the creation of a "truth" while stating that there are no absolutes. It denounces those who hold Christian value-based views as bigots, closed-minded and unintellectual. Candidly, such harassment itself should expose the fallacious nature of the secular debate.

What was once based on character, integrity and truth is now awash with realitivistic dogma. Such demagoguery ill serves the debate. If the secular argument is indeed superior, let it stand the test of a sincere debate. Drop the bias toward a godless society. End the put down of those who would hold to Christian values. Put the secular progressive agenda to the test by revealing its presuppositions.

In a truly free society, such differences are debated without malice. One who holds to a Christian world view should be ready to give an answer to anyone who asks of the reason of his or her hope (1 Peter 3:15). Such debate refuses to disparage a person with whom one disagrees. Rather, it demands a firm grasp of that which one seeks to put forward, and a trust in the Author of Truth to embed His Truth in the heart of the listener. Those with whom we debate will be convinced by God's Spirit, not by our vitriol or oratorical eloquence. Perhaps it's time to return to the direction of God's Spirit and refuse to be drawn into the muck and mire of the "politics of mutual destruction."

Let's make a difference in the marketplace!

Energy: Potential or Kinetic

As we began a new year, the penchant for setting "New Year's Resolutions" grew exponentially. One cannot watch television, listen to radio, or read editorials without some reference to what will be done differently in the coming year. Sadly most resolutions lack firmness of purpose, and merely speak to one's superficial desires based on societal or cultural influences.

Most so called resolutions possess the equivalent of potential energy. Reflection on this point begs the question, "Do I want real change or am I merely creating soundbites for the benefit of those around me?"

Potential energy is the energy an object has because of it's position, rather than it's motion. An object held in ones hand possesses potential energy until it is dropped and becomes subject to the pull of gravity. A new battery possesses potential energy until it is appropriately connected to the device for which it was purchased. So resolutions possess only potential energy until some force is applied that puts one's resolve into motion.

An object will tend to remain at rest until some external force acts upon it and overcomes what is known as inertia. Change only comes when inertia is overcome through an outside force. This force must be sufficient to release the potential energy and create what is known as kinetic energy. Kinetic energy is the energy an object possesses as a result of its motion. The release of energy into motion is impacted by many factors including, but not limited to, velocity, mass, and friction.

This same principle can be applied to someone seeking a permanent change in their lifestyle, habits, health, etc. Is your "energy" potential or kinetic? What will cause you to overcome your natural state of inertia to achieve the resolutions you've established? What external "force" will you use to overcome the inertia in your life this year?

Make real change possible by allowing your energy to be put in motion by overcoming the tendency to "remain at rest." Change the habits that create ease and "force" yourself out of your comfort zone. Once in motion, refuse to stop until your goal is attained. Make your resolutions "revolutions" that change your destiny. While you do this, remember . . .

Always make a difference!!